How I Survived My Digital Detox…With a Little Help from Deepak Chopra
I had the opportunity to experiment with becoming unplugged by escaping the tech universe for a couple of days and chilling out with the Chopra Institute.
This was a dream come true!
I had the privilege of attending the Living in Balance Retreat with Dr. Deepak Chopra, the Guru to the stars and beyond The Chopra Center workshop, was held in a lovely setting, the Sheraton Westin Carlsbad Resort, and Spa.
Unless you’ve been living in a coma for a few decades, you’ve probably heard of this “controversial New Age guru and booster of alternative medicine”(New York Times, 2013). Time Magazine stated that he is “the poet-prophet of alternative medicine.” He has become one of the best-known and wealthiest figures in the holistic-health movement.
While attending I also chose to participate in my own self-imposed ‘digital detox’ from the usual suspects, my MacBookPro, my new iPhone (way beyond my skillset, with all the bells and whistles) and iPad.
The experience was a delight for all of the senses. Detoxing from the matrix of technology and all the accouterments while learning a comprehensive approach to a healthy, balanced lifestyle was just what the Doctor ordered.
In celebration of March 9 National Day of Unplugging, I was prepped by four jam-packed days listening to the best experts in functional medicine. They were the Chopra Center Medical Experts on the leading edge, sharing the latest in self-care and Ayurveda, the ancient healing tradition.
According to the recent study from Pew research, they were able to establish a measurement for stress that is known as the Perceived Stress Scale (PSS). To do so they created a list of 10 questions for participants to answer, which explored the relationship between a variety of digital technology uses and psychological stress.
“These technologies are said to takeover people’s lives, creating time and social pressures that put people at risk from the negative physical and psychological health effects that can result from stress.”
Because of this increased stress, there is a growing emphasis on overall well-being and wellness sweeping through modern culture. It is also a backlash from the influx of new addictions such as the fears of not being connected, like problematic internet use or nomophobia (no-mobile-phone-phobia) or FOMO (fear of missing out).
With the fast-paced onslaught of technological advancements, there are now scientific studies finding a rising trend in anxiety disorders around not having access to a mobile phone.
The best way I’ve found to combat these modern-day stressors is to commit to a mindful meditation practice. We learned how to do the Primordial Sound Meditation.
In addition to basic principles of Ayurveda, which focus on the mind-body connection, eating a balanced diet of six tastes, (sweet, salty, sour, pungent, bitter, and astringent) there are several key points.
In Ayurveda, the five elements that are found in all living things — ether, air, fire, water, and earth — are the building blocks of life. While this foundation unites all humans, the manifestation of those elements through the doshas is what gives rise to our differences. How the three doshas appear, and in what proportion, is what makes each of us unique.
These are some of my favorite takeaways from the Living in Balance Event (and what I am attempting to abide) for a weekend day without my tech devices. (Maybe even just a few hours would be good.)
1. Get to bed early, to experience a deep, restful night’s sleep.
Have a routine that works, such as a soothing aromatherapy bath. Creating a ritual can help the body attune to a natural rhythm definitely don’t watch TV or be on the computer at least a couple of hours before bed.
Reading a book is the old-fashioned way. Unplug the phone, move it out of your room or at least hide it from yourself so if you wake up in the middle of the night, do not turn it on to watch a YouTube video or Facebook.
The light from the phone will mess up your pineal gland and keep you more wide awake. I am still struggling with sleep issues and occasionally break that rule.
2. Wake up early and do a mindfulness meditation.
Align your mind/body and connect with your spirit. If going cold turkey, don’t even look at your computer or emails.
3. Get a positive mindset before you get out of bed.
Make an intention for the day. Write it down. I usually post it in my daily calendar so I had to make sure to have a notebook and pen handy.
4. Get a headstart by drinking a large glass of warm water with lemon.
Get out of bed and stretch, do some yoga and deep breaths.
5. Eat a light breakfast,
A healthy organic shake with the perfect blend for your body/mind type (dosha)
6. Go to the gym or a yoga class and get the body moving.
The Best is to take a walk in nature and connect with all of your senses.
Experience all the beauty that surrounds you and take it in deeply. Breathe in the fresh air.
7. Have a healthy lunch with a bountiful array of colorful, fresh organic fruits and vegetables...
Meet a friend for lunch at a designated time and place (without using the cellphone). Remember when we used to do that in the old days, just make a date and coordinate? Eat a balanced array of fresh healthy, organic pure plant foods and a variety of spices, according to your dosha. Enjoy laughter!
7. Release toxic emotions as they appear.
Let the positive vibes flow through. Replace negative thoughts with peaceful, joyful images. Puppy dogs, chocolate kisses and lots of warm, fuzzy fun
8. Prepare a feast with friends and family at home.
Gather together while each participates in making delicious food and sharing healthy experiences. Put on your favorite music and dance, sing, play!
9. Watch the sunset! Go outside and gaze at the stars, take a brisk walk and enjoy the moonlight
Get in touch with the vastness of the universe, enjoy the wonders of the world, the immense activity in the sky.
10. Rejoice in knowing that the world is so vast, beyond our imagination and technology is just a tool, not the raison d’etre.
We are not ‘our cellphones, our computers, our social media profiles’! Each of us are powerful beings plugged into a greater source, above and beyond!
While at the wellness retreat it was easy to take a break from devices because I was in a world of the leading edge wellness experts. I was mesmerized by the wisdom of the ages, with Deepak and his ‘way of the wizard’ hypnotic musings.
Each speaker shared simple yet powerful principles to making better lifestyle choices. It was the most comprehensive interactive retreat I’ve ever attended and it taught me how to adapt the specific principles of optimum wellness geared to my personal body type.
Yet, returning to my unconscious daily habits that have accumulated over the past few years shows me how addicted I have become to my tech devices. It has made me more mindful of how ubiquitous this is for all of us.
This retreat was a lifesaver and requires a conscious effort and commitment to wake up to the hidden stressors that plague us all. I have taken to heart, the Living in Balance Challenge and am ready to take responsibility for my own health and happiness.
The future of health care begins with Self-Care and the best place to start is by visiting a wellness retreat such as Living in Balance with Deepak Chopra and his brilliant team of experts!
7 TIPS FOR LIVING IN BALANCE: FROM DEEPAK CHOPRA AT THE “LIVING IN BALANCE RETREAT”
The Healing Self
Knowledge is useless until it is activated. On the last day of the Living in Balance retreat with Deepak Chopra guests, we were given a “Balance Tip of the Day.” This is a simple prescription for applying the teachings from the weekend into our daily lives at home.
- Make time to quiet the mind and meditate
- Eat a healthy balanced diet with lots of organic, pure, colorful, fruits and vegetables. Pay attention to including the six tastes (sweet, sour, bitter, astringent, salty, pungent) into each meal. Drink lots of pure, filtered water (without ice) and herbal elixirs and teas.
- Move your body, take breaks from desk work by getting up every half in hour if possible. Take in deep breaths, get outside in nature, walk barefoot and get grounded on the grass or sand.
- Cultivate loving relationships. Connect with your heart center and find ways to share your positive feelings with others. Get and give hugs. Healing touch is vital to health, so go and hug a loved one or a friend every chance you get. Don’t miss the opportunity to pet a dog or any pet and even a tree.
- Enjoy a good belly laugh at least once a day, uncontrollable laughter is the best medicine.
- Release emotional toxins. Take a moment to let go of worries, stress, and negative feelings.
- Make a ritual of good habits that lead to restful sleep. It is essential, and especially remove all technology from the bedroom or at least shut down and put your phone, laptop and iPad to bed.
8. Another Way To Balance Is With This Sleep Prep Tip
Unplug two to three hours before bed. Take a soothing bath with aromatherapy (with lavender and Epsom salts). Keep a journal and make a gratitude list. Ask soul questions and reflect back on the day, so you can release the experience of it all and prepare for sweet dreams.
Humans Live For Meaning
If you are seeking more in-depth information, Dr. Deepak Chopra and Rudolph Tanzi have published a new book, The Healing Self, which is a revolutionary new plan to supercharge your immunity and stay well for life. Deepak Chopra, The Healing Self: Supercharge your immune system and stay well for life
With all the different choices and new scientific discoveries on how to live your best life, the first step is finding a deeper understanding and balance in your whole-body system and to understand how everything in your consciousness has an effect on your health.
Since my experience at the Living in Balance seminar, I have committed to making some significant changes in my life. I appreciate more fully that the key is to be mindful of what is life-affirming and empowering and to learn how to listen to my own inner guidance.
As Deepak Chopra shares: “Humans are not biological robots. We live for meaning, for the personal value of every experience. The body metabolizes our experiences and sends the message to every cell, while the mind, in its own domain, processes experience in terms of sensations, images, thoughts, and feelings. Nothing fuses the whole-system effects of love and non-love like the human heart, which needs to be understood as more than a physical organ.”
